You Don’t Have to Relive Your Past to Change Your Relationship With It One of the questions I sometimes ask someone sitting across from me sounds a little strange at first. “When did this response make sense?” Not: What’s wrong with you? Why aren’t you over this? Why are you still letting this bother you? Why can’t you just move on? When did this response make sense? Because sometimes the thing causing problems in your life today started as a perfectly understandable response to something that happened yesterday. Maybe yesterday was last year. Maybe it was twenty years ago. Maybe…
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Understanding Your Internal Alarm System A smoke detector has one job. Detect smoke. That’s it. It doesn’t know whether your house is on fire or you left the toast in the toaster thirty seconds too long. It detects something that might indicate danger and sounds the alarm. Loudly. Which is exactly what you want when there’s a fire. It’s considerably less helpful when you’re standing underneath it waving a dish towel because breakfast got a little crispy. But here’s the interesting part. The smoke detector isn’t necessarily broken. It’s trying to protect you. It’s just responding to something that isn’t…
Comments closedUnderstanding the Automatic Patterns That Keep Us Stuck “I know better.” I have heard some version of those three words more times than I could possibly count. I know I shouldn’t worry about this. I know I need to say no. I know I don’t need everybody’s approval. I know this person isn’t the person who hurt me. I know cigarettes are bad for me. I know I’m safe. Usually, the person saying those words isn’t confused about what they should do. That’s what makes the problem so frustrating. They already understand it. They’ve thought about it. They’ve probably talked…
Comments closedIn the world of holistic health, the concept that negative energy can impact our physical well-being is gaining traction. This idea suggests that the emotions and energy surrounding us, even from past generations, can have profound effects on our health. A compelling example of this phenomenon comes from a study involving a World War II veteran who survived a Kamikaze attack. This study illustrates how deeply embedded trauma can trigger physiological responses, even decades after the initial event. The WW2 Veteran Study In this study, a World War II veteran, who had survived a Kamikaze attack, was asked to watch…
Comments closedSkin picking disorder, also known as dermatillomania or excoriation disorder, is a mental health condition characterized by the repetitive picking of one’s own skin, leading to tissue damage and scarring. It is classified under the broader category of obsessive-compulsive and related disorders in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). This condition can have significant physical and emotional consequences, including infections, scarring, and considerable psychological distress. The Nature of Skin Picking Disorders Individuals with skin picking disorders often feel a strong urge to pick at perceived imperfections or irregularities on their skin. This behavior can become so ingrained…
Comments closedAs the seasons shift and daylight dwindles, some individuals find themselves grappling with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a form of depression that typically emerges during the fall and winter months. The combination of reduced sunlight and colder temperatures can trigger changes in the body’s internal clock and disrupt vital neurotransmitters like serotonin and melatonin, leading to symptoms like fatigue, low energy, and changes in mood. While various treatments exist for SAD, one often overlooked but remarkably effective approach is Clinical Hypnotherapy. This holistic and non-invasive method taps into the power of the subconscious mind, offering a unique avenue for managing…
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