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The Negative Trance of Not Forgiving Yourself

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to extend forgiveness to others? A friend apologizes for a mistake, and you let it go. A loved one wrongs you, and you find a way to move past it. Yet, when it comes to your own missteps, the same grace seems impossible to muster. You find yourself trapped in a loop of self-criticism, regret, and shame—a negative trance that refuses to release you. The inability to forgive yourself, despite being able to forgive others, is a common struggle. It’s a pattern rooted in deep-seated beliefs about worthiness, responsibility, and self-perception. But…

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